You know those days, where nothing goes according to plan. It is an all out assault on your sanity and it is only 8:00 in the morning. We regress to our inner toddler and have a full-out temper tantrum. Then after said fit, we ashamedly return to our adult selves and realize that today is going to be full of potholes. A day where we fall into a sizable hole, not a bump, in the road. As I am writing, I am currently dwelling in a pothole. Oh yes, I will climb out, shake the dust off and continue to adult but for the time being, I am going to stay a while. That pesky pride takes center stage and wants to be recognized.
Multiple factors influence our actions. Pain, stress, hunger, fatigue or sickness are just a few things that can turn you into a completely different person. A person you barely recognize. I take full responsibility for my tantrum earlier. In no way am I excusing my actions. Stress-ridden at the task of traveling hours and a state away for annual medical tests has chipped away at my patience. Let me mention that on a trip to this city, our vehicle was broken into and suitcases stolen. My Bible from my grandmother was in my suitcase and my prayer has always been that God would use His Word to reach someone. Yes, back to potholes.
There are those with a centimeter size fuse and then those that have a fuse a mile long. But when it is lit, Kaboom. Unfortunately our testimony is sometimes damaged when we hit this pothole in the road. Who heard what we said? Who saw what we did? Was it a stranger? Was it a child? Was it your spouse? Or were we alone, with only our Father to see our tirade? There is always a spectator to watch us fall into that pothole. Wonderful news though, we are imperfect people who serve a perfect God.
The first step is to admit when we are wrong. In our minds we will try to justify our actions. When we hit our boiling point, the world will tell us it is o.k. to let it out and blow off steam. There are always consequences to our actions. We must accept that. Good or bad a pothole can be a teaching moment if we allow it.
The next step is to grow from it. Our behavior might have been downright shameful but did you learn something from it? Every moment we take a breath, is a teaching moment. Pray for wisdom during the cool down period. Gather your thoughts, though you may be rattled, grow.
The last step is to be free from that pothole. We may have hit it while on the road of life but we don’t have to live in it. Whatever has hit you and knocked you down during your walk does not have to keep you down. Do not allow any carnal thing to have power over you. Tap into our Father’s power. Potholes take many forms, it is anything that causes you to stray from your path with the Lord. We may be jolted but we have a built-in shock protector, the Holy Spirit. Listen to His prompting, He will help you out of that pothole.
I can report that I have climbed out of the pothole that I was in when I started writing this post. I cast my pride away and made ammends. God can heal so much if we allow Him to intervene and not our emotions. Please keep me in your prayers for safe travels and good results. Thank y’all and God Bless.
He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Psalm 23:3
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Thank you my friend. 🙂 Have a blessed day.
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You’re very welcome and Blessings to you too my friend 😍
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I found this adorable. It might be because our car is in the shop, because we hit too many potholes. But it is all good. Hopefully the insurance will pay for the rental car and God has provided for the rest. Thanks for this post.
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Oh no, I hope they fix it quickly! God is so good to provide for us. God bless 🙂
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“Do not allow any carnal thing to have power over you. Tap into our Father’s power.”
A very good thing to keep in mind~
Have a blessed day, Kelly, amen! \o/
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Thank-you Sherry 🙂 It is so easy in a moment of weakness to forget where our strength comes from. God Bless sweet sister.
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Praying for you sister. I have felt the same way many times. God bless you and I pray you have a blessed and very Merry Christmas!
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Thank you Ryan 🙂 Life can be hard but I am so thankful we have a Mighty Comforter. Merry Christmas to you too!
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I LOVE it! I am having an inner toddler/in the pothole day so this is very timely. This is awesome!
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I am so glad the Lord has used this to minister to you ❤ I hope things get better for you today sweet friend.
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No, no, thank you my beloved sister
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I love this; I have had many potholes in my daily life and more tantrums than I can count. But your message was inspiring; keep your thoughts and actions on God and you will get those bumps in the road. I have no idea what be without my faith in God. May he bless you in 2019 and Merry Christmas you and your family
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Thank you 🙂 Yes brother, we will get through those tough times sheltered under His wings. Your kind words are very encouraging. God Bless and Merry Christmas to you too!
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Merry Christmas to you as well. I try to use this blog to encourage others and spread kindness. You have a great blog btw; keep up the good work. God bless
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I thoroughly enjoy reading about your life through your blog and how you always give God the glory.
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Yes the credit all goes to God. My life was just empty before him. I am blessed and this blog is a part of his plan. I am so glad I could connect with other people who live their faith
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Amen brother. Well put 🙂
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What a beautiful post about the challenges we face and increasing our faith in God; great post. Thank you! (reblogged)
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Thank-you Dave! I just hope God uses it to reach someone. Have a great day!
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I’m sure he already has. I hope God blesses you tonight. Take care, friend
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Amen 🙂 I just made it home safely after a long trip, praise God!
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That is good; I’m glad you made it safely too. Get some rest lol
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Thank you 🙂
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Every pot hole has alesson attached to the edge as we climb out. Thankfully our God writes good directions.
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Yes, yes He does ❤ all we have to do is follow His prompting. God Bless and Merry Christmas!
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Kelly, thank you for sharing how the Lord works us through those rough places. He always knows where we are and how to bring us out. Praying for your continued growth through the difficult times. If not for those times, we would not know His nearness and goodness. (Have I said that before?) 🙂 Blessings
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I am so thankful He never loses us, we may get off track but He is always there. How true and how wonderfully spoken Frances ❤ Amen to His nearness and goodness! Merry Christmas my friend.
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The potholes are no place to stay. They are just hurdles that are a part of life. Thank God that with His help we can get over all the potholes and bumps in life. Beautiful and encouraging post.
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Amen Beverley. I completely agree ❤ Thank you for sharing your thoughts. God Bless and Merry Christmas!
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I started calling them pitholes because they seem so deep and almost impossible to climb out of. I don’t always like it, but God has used these pitholes to deepen my faith and trust in him. Thanks for the inspiring words. Merry Christmas.
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That is a great observation. I like that 🙂 Once we climb out of them we can reflect back on how much we have learned and how much stonger we are through Him. Thank-you and Merry Christmas.
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Amen….awesome post. I have come to look at potholes as the building blocks to having a deeper faith with God. It still doesn’t feel nice to be in the potholes though. I am thankful that we serve such a merciful and forgiving God.
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They are not fun to be in at the moment but when we climb out and realize what God has brought us out of, we can gaze awe-struck at His delivering grace. I love how you describe them as the building blocks to a deeper faith. Great perspective!
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Thank you 🙏🏾
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